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The Role of Self-Knowledge in Life Purpose

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We often approach the question of life purpose by looking outward—asking what the world needs, what jobs are available, or what paths others have taken. But true purpose doesn’t begin out there. It begins within.

At the heart of a meaningful life is self-knowledge.

Without a grounded sense of who we are, we can end up chasing goals that don’t truly belong to us. We follow the well-trodden paths, take on roles or identities we think we should have, and strive toward markers of success that leave us feeling strangely empty. If you’ve ever ticked all the boxes and still felt unfulfilled, you’ll know what I mean.

That’s where self-knowledge becomes essential—not as a nice-to-have, but as a compass.

Why Self-Knowledge Matters

Knowing yourself means being aware of your values, your strengths, your quirks and patterns, and your deepest desires. It’s about understanding what energizes you, what drains you, and what calls to you at a soul-deep level.

This kind of insight allows you to live with greater intention. It gives you a filter for decision-making, a clearer sense of what’s worth saying yes to—and what needs to be gently but firmly declined. It helps you navigate change, setbacks, and the many crossroads that life inevitably brings.

Most importantly, self-knowledge lays the foundation for a purpose that’s authentic, sustainable, and fulfilling.

Purpose That Grows From the Inside Out

In my own journey and in my work with clients, I’ve seen how purpose becomes clearer when we take the time to understand ourselves. That’s why the Soulful Path to Life Purpose begins not with lofty goals or action plans, but with a deep dive into who you are.

We explore your personality, values, strengths, passions, and life story—not in isolation, but in connection with one another. We look at the patterns that run through your life, the threads that keep showing up, and the parts of you that are ready to come into fuller expression.

This is not a quick fix or a one-size-fits-all formula. It’s a reflective, often transformative process. And it’s one that honours your unique journey.

Beyond the Surface

Self-knowledge isn’t about boxing yourself in or putting a label on who you are. It’s about opening up to deeper layers of meaning and possibility. It asks for honesty. It invites curiosity. And sometimes, it asks for courage—the courage to accept what you find, and to grow into the person you’re becoming.

The beautiful paradox is that the more we come to know ourselves, the more connected we become to others. Purpose isn’t just about personal fulfilment. It’s about how we show up in the world—how we contribute, connect, and live in alignment with something larger than ourselves.

A Soulful Approach

As I prepare to launch the Soulful Path to Life Purpose programme this spring, I’m reminded again and again that purpose isn’t something we find once and for all. It unfolds. It evolves. And it deepens as we grow.

Self-knowledge is the ground we build on. It’s the quiet strength that helps us stay true to ourselves while navigating life’s many turns.

If you’re feeling the call to explore your purpose—or to reconnect with who you truly are—I’d love to walk alongside you on that journey.

The next post in this series will share more about the Spiral Path approach that underpins the programme. In the meantime, take a moment to ask yourself:

What part of me is ready to be known more deeply?

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Why Life Purpose Isn’t a Job Title

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When we hear the phrase “life purpose,” many of us instinctively think of a job.
We assume it must be something career-related, like being a doctor, an artist, a teacher, or an entrepreneur. Something you can put on a business card. Something that neatly sums up your identity.

But purpose isn’t a job title. And it isn’t something you can only live out if you’ve landed your dream role or turned your passion into a pay cheque.

In truth, purpose is much broader—and much deeper—than that.

Prefer to watch instead? Here’s a video version of this post:

Purpose is About Who You Are, Not Just What You Do

Your purpose isn’t confined to your work, even if you love what you do. It’s about how you show up in the world. It’s expressed through your values, your relationships, the way you move through each day, and the small acts that matter to you.

You can live a deeply purposeful life as a parent, a carer, a volunteer, a community builder, or an everyday presence in someone’s life. You can live your purpose in paid work, unpaid work, creative expression, quiet presence, or public leadership.

Purpose doesn’t always have to be grand. Sometimes, it’s humble and hidden—and no less powerful for it.

The Trouble with Job-Title Thinking

When we tie our purpose to a single role or identity, we risk losing sight of our deeper “why.”
What happens if that job ends? Or if you change careers? Or take time out to care for someone?
Does that mean your purpose disappears?

Of course not.

Tying your identity and sense of meaning too tightly to a role can leave you feeling adrift when life inevitably changes. But when you understand your purpose as a deeper thread running through your life, you become more flexible—and more resilient.

Your Purpose is Already in Motion

Often, people worry they haven’t found their purpose yet—especially if they don’t have a clear vision of what they’re “meant” to do.

But chances are, you’ve already been living parts of your purpose. In the things you care about. In the ways you’ve helped others. In the moments when you’ve felt most alive, most connected, or most true to yourself.

Your purpose may not be one thing. It may not have a name or a title. But that doesn’t make it any less real.

A Soulful Reframing

What if we stopped asking, “What is my purpose?”
And started asking instead:

  • What matters deeply to me?
  • How do I want to show up in the world?
  • What kind of impact do I want to have—whether visible or invisible?
  • What legacy do I want to leave in the lives I touch?

These questions invite us to look beyond job titles and toward the essence of who we are becoming.

Want to Explore Your Life Purpose in a More Soulful Way?

If you’re tired of trying to squeeze your life purpose into a job description, the Soulful Path to Life Purpose programme offers a different way forward.

This isn’t about finding the perfect career. It’s about discovering who you are, what matters to you, and how you can live in greater alignment with your truth—whatever your circumstances.

👉 Learn more about the Soulful Path programme here.

Purpose isn’t something out there waiting to be found.
It’s something within you, ready to unfold.

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How to Live a A Life of Meaning

What does it mean to live a life that is truly our own? How do we move beyond inherited beliefs and external expectations to find meaning on our own terms? These are the kinds of questions James Hollis explores in A Life of Meaning, a book that speaks deeply to those on a journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and soulful purpose.

Hollis, a Jungian analyst and one of the most insightful writers on depth psychology, invites us to engage in a different kind of conversation—one that doesn’t promise easy answers but instead encourages us to sit with life’s uncertainties and trust in the unfolding of our own path.

Read the full review here…

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What are Common Misconceptions About Life Purpose?

As the concept of “life purpose” grows in popularity, so too do the questions and misunderstandings surrounding it. Is it something you’re born with? Does it always involve a grand mission? Can it change over time? These are just a few of the questions I encounter regularly in my work as a life purpose coach.

With the launch of our Life Purpose FAQs resource, we want to address some of the most common misconceptions about life purpose and provide clarity for those embarking on this journey.

Misconception 1: You’re Born with a Predetermined Purpose

One of the most persistent myths is the idea that you’re born with a specific, unchangeable purpose. While some people may feel a strong calling from an early age, for many, life purpose is something that unfolds over time. It’s shaped by your experiences, values, and evolving self-awareness.

Instead of viewing purpose as a fixed destiny, think of it as a dynamic process—something you co-create throughout your life.

Misconception 2: Life Purpose Has to Be Grand or World-Changing

A common roadblock for many is the belief that their purpose must be something extraordinary, like ending world hunger or becoming a celebrated artist. While these are certainly inspiring examples, your life purpose doesn’t have to be tied to fame or monumental achievements.

Your purpose could be as simple yet profound as being a compassionate presence in your relationships, nurturing your creativity, or contributing to your community in meaningful ways. Small actions can have a ripple effect that’s just as impactful as grand gestures.

Misconception 3: There’s Only One True Purpose for Everyone

The idea that there’s only one “right” purpose can create unnecessary pressure. In reality, people often have multiple purposes that shift and grow throughout their lives. What feels purposeful at one stage may no longer resonate in another—and that’s okay.

This flexibility allows you to adapt to life’s changes and explore new paths that align with your values and aspirations.

Misconception 4: If You Don’t Feel Passionate, You’re Missing a Purpose

Not everyone feels a burning passion for a particular cause or pursuit, and that doesn’t mean you’re lacking purpose. Purpose often emerges gradually, through reflection and experimentation.

At Spiral Path Life Coaching, we emphasize self-discovery—identifying your strengths, values, and interests—and showing how they can intersect to create a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Misconception 5: Life Purpose Is About What You Do

While purpose often influences your actions, it’s not just about what you do but why you do it. Your purpose is rooted in your being, not just your doing. It’s about the qualities you embody and the meaning you bring to your life and relationships.

For example, a teacher’s purpose might not just be to teach but to inspire a love of learning and growth in others. By focusing on the why, you can find purpose in many aspects of your life.

What’s Next?

If these misconceptions have ever left you feeling stuck or uncertain, we hope this post has helped clear the fog. Understanding life purpose is a journey, and it’s natural to have questions and doubts along the way.

That’s why we’ve created the Life Purpose FAQs resource – a guide to address your burning questions and provide practical insights for finding clarity and direction. Whether you’re just starting to explore your purpose or you’re refining it, this resource will be a valuable companion on your journey.

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Your Questions Answered: Common Misconceptions About Life Purpose

As the concept of “life purpose” grows in popularity, so too do the questions and misunderstandings surrounding it. Is it something you’re born with? Does it always involve a grand mission? Can it change over time?

With the launch of our Life Purpose FAQs resource, we want to address some of the most common misconceptions about life purpose and provide clarity for those embarking on this journey.

Misconception 1: You’re Born with a Predetermined Purpose

One of the most persistent myths is the idea that you’re born with a specific, unchangeable purpose. While some people may feel a strong calling from an early age, for many, life purpose is something that unfolds over time. It’s shaped by your experiences, values, and evolving self-awareness.

Instead of viewing purpose as a fixed destiny, think of it as a dynamic process—something you co-create throughout your life.

Misconception 2: Life Purpose Has to Be Grand or World-Changing

A common roadblock for many is the belief that their purpose must be something extraordinary, like ending world hunger or becoming a celebrated artist. While these are certainly inspiring examples, your life purpose doesn’t have to be tied to fame or monumental achievements.

Your purpose could be as simple yet profound as being a compassionate presence in your relationships, nurturing your creativity, or contributing to your community in meaningful ways. Small actions can have a ripple effect that’s just as impactful as grand gestures.

Misconception 3: There’s Only One True Purpose for Everyone

The idea that there’s only one “right” purpose can create unnecessary pressure. In reality, people often have multiple purposes that shift and grow throughout their lives. What feels purposeful at one stage may no longer resonate in another—and that’s okay.

This flexibility allows you to adapt to life’s changes and explore new paths that align with your values and aspirations.

Misconception 4: If You Don’t Feel Passionate, You’re Missing a Purpose

Not everyone feels a burning passion for a particular cause or pursuit, and that doesn’t mean you’re lacking purpose. Purpose often emerges gradually, through reflection and experimentation.

At Spiral Path Life Coaching, we emphasize self-discovery—identifying your strengths, values, and interests – and showing how they can intersect to create a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Misconception 5: Life Purpose Is About What You Do

While purpose often influences your actions, it’s not just about what you do but why you do it. Your purpose is rooted in your being, not just your doing. It’s about the qualities you embody and the meaning you bring to your life and relationships.

For example, a teacher’s purpose might not just be to teach but to inspire a love of learning and growth in others. By focusing on the why, you can find purpose in many aspects of your life.

What’s Next?

If these misconceptions have ever left you feeling stuck or uncertain, we hope this post has helped clear the fog. Understanding life purpose is a journey, and it’s natural to have questions and doubts along the way.

That’s why we’ve created the Life Purpose FAQs resource—a guide to address your burning questions and provide practical insights for finding clarity and direction. Whether you’re just starting to explore your purpose or you’re refining it, this resource will be a valuable companion on your journey.

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What is Life Purpose and Why Does it Matter?

Have you ever wondered why some people seem so clear about the path they want to take, while others spend years—or even a lifetime—feeling uncertain or unfulfilled? At the heart of this question lies a concept that has fascinated thinkers, spiritual leaders, and psychologists for centuries: life purpose.

But what does “life purpose” really mean, and why should we care about it? Let’s explore.

What Is Life Purpose?

Life purpose is the overarching reason that gives our lives meaning and direction. It’s not just about what we do, but who we are and what we aspire to become. For some, their purpose is tied to their work—creating art, solving problems, or helping others. For others, it’s deeply personal and might revolve around relationships, personal growth, or simply living with intention.

In many ways, life purpose acts as a compass. It provides clarity when we face difficult decisions, motivation when times are tough, and a sense of satisfaction when our actions align with our deeper values.

Why Does It Matter?

  1. Guidance in Decision-Making

When you’re clear about your purpose, it becomes easier to make choices. You can evaluate opportunities and challenges by asking, “Does this align with what truly matters to me?” This clarity can save time and energy that might otherwise be spent on paths that don’t feel authentic.

  1. Increased Resilience

A strong sense of purpose has been linked to greater resilience. When you know your “why,” it becomes easier to navigate life’s inevitable ups and downs. Purpose acts as a foundation, helping you bounce back from setbacks with renewed determination.

  1. Enhanced Well-Being

Studies show that people who feel they are living a purposeful life experience higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress. Purpose is a source of fulfilment, allowing us to feel that our lives have meaning beyond day-to-day tasks.

  1. Deeper Connections

Understanding your life purpose can also strengthen your relationships. When you live authentically, you’re more likely to attract like-minded people who resonate with your values and aspirations.

What If You’re Not Sure of Your Purpose?

If you’re feeling uncertain about your life purpose, know that you’re not alone. For many, finding purpose is a journey rather than a destination. It evolves over time as we grow, learn, and experience new things. The key is to stay open to self-reflection and exploration.

Exciting News: Life Purpose FAQs Have Launched!

We are thrilled to announce that the Life Purpose FAQs resource is now live! This comprehensive guide addresses the most common questions and misconceptions about life purpose, providing practical insights and actionable tips to help you navigate your journey.

Whether you’re just starting to explore your life purpose or looking for deeper clarity and direction,  Life Purpose FAQs offers accessible and meaningful support. We hope this resource will inspire you to uncover what truly matters to you and take steps toward a more intentional, fulfilling life.

You can explore  Life Purpose FAQs today and start gaining the clarity and direction you’ve been seeking. Check it out now and let us know how it resonates with you!

Closing Thoughts

Life purpose is not about having all the answers or living a perfect life. Instead, it’s about tuning into what matters most to you and using that awareness to shape your decisions, actions, and goals. Whether your purpose feels crystal clear or still a little blurry, every step you take toward greater self-awareness and alignment is a step worth celebrating.

Are you ready to embark on or deepen your journey toward finding your life purpose? Share your thoughts and questions in the comments below and explore  Life Purpose FAQs to take the next step in your journey!

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Why personality type is important for life purpose discovery

In the last couple of articles, we looked at why it is important to know your personality type and how to find out yours. In this article, we’ll be looking at the interplay between personality type and life purpose.

Introduction

Understanding your personality type is crucial for discovering your life purpose because it provides valuable insights into your natural preferences, strengths, weaknesses, and inclinations.

Life purpose and personality type

Here are several reasons why knowing your personality type can help you find and fulfil your life purpose:

  1. Self-Awareness: Knowing your personality type increases self-awareness. This understanding helps you recognize what environments, tasks, and roles you naturally gravitate towards and excel in. Moreover, self-awareness is the first step in identifying a life purpose that resonates deeply with your core self.
  2. Strengths and Weaknesses: Each personality type has inherent strengths and weaknesses. Understanding these can help you identify what roles or careers you are likely to succeed in and what areas you might need to develop further or seek support in. Aligning your life purpose with your strengths ensures greater satisfaction and success.
  3. Motivations and Values: Different personality types are driven by different motivations and values. Knowing your type can help you understand what truly motivates you and what you value most, guiding you towards a purpose that fulfils these intrinsic desires.
  4. Decision-Making: Personality type influences how you make decisions, whether you rely more on logic, emotions, or a combination of both. Understanding your decision-making style can help you make more informed and confident choices about your life direction.
  5. Compatibility with Environments: Certain personality types thrive in specific environments. For example, some people might flourish in structured, predictable settings, while others thrive in dynamic, high-energy environments. Knowing your type can help you seek out environments that will support your growth and happiness.
  6. Career Path: Many personality assessments, such as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), provide insights into career paths that are typically well-suited to different personality types. This can be a valuable guide in choosing a career that aligns with your natural tendencies and passions.
  7. Interpersonal Relationships: Understanding your personality type can improve your interactions with others. It can help you navigate relationships, communicate more effectively, and build a supportive network that aligns with your life purpose.
  8. Stress Management: Different personality types handle stress in various ways. Knowing your type can help you develop strategies to manage stress effectively, ensuring that you stay focused and motivated towards your life goals.
  9. Personal Growth: Recognizing your personality type can highlight areas for personal growth and development. By understanding your limitations, you can work on overcoming them, thereby aligning your life purpose with continuous self-improvement.
  10. Authenticity: Ultimately, knowing your personality type encourages you to live more authentically. It helps you understand and accept yourself, fostering a life purpose that is true to who you are, rather than who you think you should be.

Conclusion

In summary, understanding your personality type is a powerful tool in discovering and pursuing your life purpose. It provides clarity, direction, and a framework for making choices that are aligned with your true self, leading to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

To find out your personality type, visit 16Personalities or Truity.

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Finding Your Life Purpose: Transcending Vocation and Career Paths

Introduction

In the pursuit of a fulfilling life, it’s crucial to distinguish between your life purpose, vocation, and career. Each plays a distinct role in shaping your journey towards personal satisfaction and fulfilment. Let’s delve into these concepts to understand their differences and how they contribute uniquely to our sense of purpose and happiness.

Understanding Life Purpose

Your life purpose is the overarching reason for your existence. It’s the deeper meaning behind everything you do. It transcends mere job titles or daily tasks. Discovering your life purpose involves reflecting on your values, passions, and the impact you want to make on the world. However, unlike a vocation, which often focuses on skills and earning a living, your life purpose encompasses a broader sense of fulfilment and contribution to society.

Differentiating Vocation and Career

While your vocation refers to the occupation or profession you choose, your career encompasses the roles and positions you hold throughout your working life. Vocation is often driven by skills, interests, and market demand. In contrast, a career can involve upward mobility, advancements, and achievements within a chosen field. Both vocation and career are important aspects of your professional identity. However, they may or may not align perfectly with your life purpose.

Finding Alignment and Purpose

The key to a fulfilling life lies in aligning your vocation and career with your life purpose. When your daily work aligns with your deeper values and passions, you experience a greater sense of satisfaction and meaning. However, it’s important to recognize that not everyone’s vocation or career will perfectly mirror their life purpose. Sometimes, your life purpose can be expressed through hobbies, volunteer work, or personal relationships outside of work.

Embracing the Journey

Discovering your life purpose is a journey that involves self-reflection, exploration, and sometimes trial and error. It’s about understanding what truly motivates and inspires you beyond financial rewards or societal expectations. Moreover, this journey may require stepping outside of your comfort zone, seeking new experiences, and embracing change. Ultimately, it’s a process of growth and self-discovery that can lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while vocation and career play important roles in our lives, they are not synonymous with our life purpose. Your life purpose is the deeper reason for your existence, guiding you towards personal fulfilment and making a meaningful impact on the world. By understanding the distinctions between these concepts and seeking alignment with your values and passions, you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and purpose that leads to a more satisfying and enriching life.

If you enjoyed this article, check out our life purpose programme.

You may also enjoy Martha Beck’s book Finding Your Own North Star

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How to Create Your Best Life using Design Principles

Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, authors of “Designing Your Life,” introduce an exciting way to think about our lives. By borrowing an idea from product design called prototyping, they show us how to test different paths before making big decisions. This method involves creating small, early versions of a product to test and improve it. Similarly, when applied to life, prototyping allows us to experiment and refine our choices.

What is Prototyping in Life Design?

Prototyping in life design means taking small steps to explore new ideas before fully committing. Burnett and Evans see life as a series of experiments. Each prototype helps us test and refine our choices, ensuring they align with our values, passions, and goals.

Steps to Prototyping Your Life

  1. Pick Areas to Explore: First, identify parts of your life you want to change or try out. This could be a new career, a hobby, or a different lifestyle.
  2. Brainstorm Ideas: Next, think of various ways to explore these areas. This might include trying a new activity, volunteering, taking a short course, or talking to people in the field you’re interested in.
  3. Create Prototypes: Then, develop small, low-cost versions of your ideas. For instance, if you’re considering a career change, take a relevant class or shadow someone in that job.
  4. Test and Get Feedback: After creating your prototypes, engage with them. Notice how you feel and what you learn. Additionally, ask for feedback from others involved.
  5. Refine and Iterate: Finally, use the insights and feedback to adjust your approach. Tweak your prototypes, combine ideas, or discard options that don’t work for you.

Why Prototyping is Useful

  • Less Risk: First and foremost, testing ideas on a small scale reduces the risk of making big, irreversible decisions.
  • Clarity: Furthermore, prototyping gives you real-life insights, helping you understand what you truly want.
  • Confidence: Additionally, successfully testing ideas boosts your confidence and shows you can make positive changes.

Real-Life Examples

  • Changing Careers: Instead of quitting your job immediately, start by freelancing or volunteering in a new field.
  • Learning: Before committing to a degree, try online courses or workshops to see if you like the subject.
  • Lifestyle Changes: Considering a big move? Test it out with a short-term stay in the new city.

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Towards Greater Well-being: Explore the Profound Impact of Living A Purposeful Life

The journey of self-discovery and aligning with what gives our lives a sense of purpose is not just about finding direction—it’s about nurturing our well-being in its entirety. In this blog post, we explore the profound impact a sense of purpose has on well-being and how it serves as a guiding light towards a life of fulfilment and vitality.

Discovering Significance in the Ordinary

Well-being extends beyond mere physical health; it includes mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions as well. Discovering what brings purpose to your life can lead to a profound sense of fulfilment that elevates you above the trivialities of daily existence, allowing you to find significance in the ordinary.

Navigating Life’s Challenges with Grace

Life is not without its trials and tribulations, but when you anchor yourself in your purpose, you approach adversity with resilience and grace. Rather than viewing obstacles as roadblocks, you see them as opportunities for growth and transformation. Purpose gives you the strength and courage to face life’s challenges head-on, knowing that each experience is a stepping stone on your journey towards greater fulfilment.

Cultivating Mental and Emotional Resilience

Research has shown that people who live with a sense of purpose tend to experience lower levels of stress, anxiety, and depression. Your sense of purpose serves as a source of mental and emotional resilience, providing you with a sense of clarity and perspective even in the face of uncertainty. When you feel aligned with what gives your life purpose, you are better equipped to navigate life’s ups and downs with equanimity and grace.

Fostering Connection and Community

Living with purpose is inherently relational—it connects us to something greater than ourselves and fosters a sense of belonging and community. Your life purpose not only enriches your own well-being but also strengthens your connections with others. You find yourself drawn to like-minded individuals who share your passions and values, forming deep and meaningful relationships built on authenticity and mutual support

Nurturing Physical Health and Vitality

When we align with our sense of purpose, our physical health and vitality often benefit as well. You find that when you engage in activities that align with your purpose, you experience a greater sense of energy, vitality, and well-being. Purposeful living inspires us to take better care of ourselves, whether through nourishing food choices, regular exercise, or restorative practices such as meditation and yoga.

Embracing the Journey

In conclusion, the impact of life purpose on well-being is profound and far-reaching. Discovering and aligning with your purpose is not just a destination—it’s a lifelong journey of self-discovery, growth, and transformation. As you continue to walk this path, you embrace the gift of purpose as a guiding light towards a life of vitality, fulfilment, and joy.